"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The SECRET to not caring

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I don't even know this world in English. To be swayed by, to be conducted by... Вестись.. In simplest form that's when your actions are effected by actions of another. For example, you are in traffic and this car ahead of you is driving rather slow, you decide to take him over, and maybe even cut him off and hunk at him. Your actions were affected by that driver.

At a store there could be a blond seller explaining to a blond customer for 30 minutes how to use her iphone 4, while you are waiting in line with your business, as a result your emotional state changes, you might even change your balance from left to right foot regularly and act annoyed.

A blond might walk by at first acting interested and you go for it and stare at her, but then as she walking next to you she suddenly has to check her time or look the other way.

A cop or a security guard or maybe a life guard at the beach stands up and get everyone's attention, and your attention as well, you stand up and listen very carefully............maybe the big emergency was that the toilet is clogged or something.


In any case, to be swayed or to be conducted by is when you reacting according to actions of others. This is a big thing in espionage and mafia, and in our everyday lives. Obviously the more educated you are, the less you gonna fall and act upon others actions.

The more educated once will analyze actions of others and decide what to do before doing it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Actions affected by the actions of another: reaction.
 
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I think op means not reacting to stupid sh*t. Pretty much the feeling you get when your soo tired and sleepy you don't have the energy and attention to deal with anything that's not important.

It's all under maintaining frame and or keeping composure. Like when your talking to girl or you approach one and it doesn't go well you don't react to the results. You keep your composure or ignore it. This is a strong quality for a man to posses and I believe it's called poise.

And don't even think about squidward from spongebob, he's too miserable to care.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Picture a wolf, he's going about his life in forest, not giving a damn about squirrels and foxes, just an alpha doing his thing. Now picture a cowardly coyote, every little noise gets his interest, and as you look at it, that thing just looks cowardly, scared, just not at the same par as a wolf.
 
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