"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"The Rules" for Women by Women.

DJ_Dork

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This book helps women prepare themselves, not only is this propaghanda against men but an insight to how women think. Look at the incredible amount of manipulation/deceit that's filled in the book. DJism is about bettering yourself for life/women but this book is about controlling men.


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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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if youre a dj and youre after a girl who follows the rules, is just not going to work out...cause you both will kinda be following the same sort of hard to get game.....
 

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To be honest, I don't have any beef with the rules. I think SOME of the ideas are good (let the man lead) (don't try to change a man). However, I do think MANY of the ideas are deterimental to women. The Rules assumes the men that a woman will date are AFC. The phone games and lack of kino on the first dates can backfire if the man is a PUA.

Additionally, the Rules puts too much focus on the Man part, like Dj_Dork says, and not enough on the woman improving herself. Where are the rules about eating right, exercising, reading? The Rules assumes the woman is ALREADY a prize... PUA's know that this is just not the case...
 

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I had a debate with my mother and few other people on that book and it stemmed from a friend of mine giving his number to a girl he was interested in.

She believed he should get her number (The Rules)

vs.

He gave her his number and it was her option to call or not call.

I'm favoring the second method as it allows her to make the decision and takes the pressure off her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Silquee Smoove
I had a debate with my mother and few other people on that book and it stemmed from a friend of mine giving his number to a girl he was interested in.

She believed he should get her number (The Rules)

vs.

He gave her his number and it was her option to call or not call.

I'm favoring the second method as it allows her to make the decision and takes the pressure off her.
IME girls will generally not call if it is put to them to have to make contact first....
 

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15. No sex before marriage

Don't rush into intimate contact while dating

what da Fu*k what is a cave-Fu*king_age,,, this rule books and ridicolous...
 

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I have bookmarked those rules...

They confirm exactly how girls behave like in the dating process!...and has given me insights into how to tackle it ..
 

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damn

great.. :(

some ppl who used to be really close to me ( girls, platonic ) are now acting like what was mentioned in The Rules...

hah!

the world is just great
 

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Haha actually it doesn't seem that bad! Except for the "no sex" part, but for the RIGHT girl I could live with that...just as long as we're going by the Clintonian definition of "no sex". :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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