"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The real secret of how to get good with women

Garand

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If you want to get good at playing football, what do you do? You play football. If you want to learn to play an instrument, what do you do? You practice that instrument.

If you want to get good at women, what do you do?

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No! You have to get out there and practice! Don't see every interaction as the big match you have to win, no one picked up a guitar for the first time and suddenly realised they were Jimmy Hendrix - it's not gonna be like that, no matter how much you read up before hand. You're going to have to practice, again and again, over and over, constantly making mistakes but you will improve. And when you can finally play the instrument that is women?

It'll be worth it.


Get practicing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BetterThanBond

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Nice
 

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coudnt get any truer than this :) its all common sense basically, we humans make life and everything so complicated
 

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True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Brandonc662

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Dole said:
True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
yeah, its hard to play chess if you dont know how the peices move. You will look like a dumb ass. You need to know rules and basic stratagy it will make the next game less painful for ya
 

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ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
 

Brandonc662

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DjSoOHain said:
ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
Its an analogy dumb ass. Just because someone compares something to chess doesn't mean they set around all day playing chess. If you compare the war in Iraq to Vietnam doesn't mean you did 2 tours in Nam. It is just an analogy, maybe you are not smart enough to understand that. Maybe it is you who is irrationally analyzing something.

OK pumpkin ;)
 

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Real big breakthrough Sherlock.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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