"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you want to get good at playing football, what do you do? You play football. If you want to learn to play an instrument, what do you do? You practice that instrument.

If you want to get good at women, what do you do?

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No! You have to get out there and practice! Don't see every interaction as the big match you have to win, no one picked up a guitar for the first time and suddenly realised they were Jimmy Hendrix - it's not gonna be like that, no matter how much you read up before hand. You're going to have to practice, again and again, over and over, constantly making mistakes but you will improve. And when you can finally play the instrument that is women?

It'll be worth it.


Get practicing.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nice
 
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coudnt get any truer than this :) its all common sense basically, we humans make life and everything so complicated
 
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True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dole said:
True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
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yeah, its hard to play chess if you dont know how the peices move. You will look like a dumb ass. You need to know rules and basic stratagy it will make the next game less painful for ya
 
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ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
 
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DjSoOHain said:
ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
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Its an analogy dumb ass. Just because someone compares something to chess doesn't mean they set around all day playing chess. If you compare the war in Iraq to Vietnam doesn't mean you did 2 tours in Nam. It is just an analogy, maybe you are not smart enough to understand that. Maybe it is you who is irrationally analyzing something.

OK pumpkin ;)
 
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Real big breakthrough Sherlock.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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