"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The real secret of how to get good with women

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If you want to get good at playing football, what do you do? You play football. If you want to learn to play an instrument, what do you do? You practice that instrument.

If you want to get good at women, what do you do?

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No! You have to get out there and practice! Don't see every interaction as the big match you have to win, no one picked up a guitar for the first time and suddenly realised they were Jimmy Hendrix - it's not gonna be like that, no matter how much you read up before hand. You're going to have to practice, again and again, over and over, constantly making mistakes but you will improve. And when you can finally play the instrument that is women?

It'll be worth it.


Get practicing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nice
 
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coudnt get any truer than this :) its all common sense basically, we humans make life and everything so complicated
 
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True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dole said:
True,
But there is theory(concepts, skills, game plan) behind every game.
It just happens that your better of knowing the theory in the seduction game first and then going out to the field practicing.
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yeah, its hard to play chess if you dont know how the peices move. You will look like a dumb ass. You need to know rules and basic stratagy it will make the next game less painful for ya
 
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ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
 
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DjSoOHain said:
ye you gotta look like a dum ass though, you guys are talking like its a chess game wtf? are you serious.... this is why you have too much problems, its cuz we were a bunch of nerds that played games all day, its cuz we analyze things way too much and the only comfort zone we have is a little box :) Only you can change yourself and get women, nobody else can help you... not this site.... not pick-up-artists.... ONLY YOU!
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Its an analogy dumb ass. Just because someone compares something to chess doesn't mean they set around all day playing chess. If you compare the war in Iraq to Vietnam doesn't mean you did 2 tours in Nam. It is just an analogy, maybe you are not smart enough to understand that. Maybe it is you who is irrationally analyzing something.

OK pumpkin ;)
 
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Real big breakthrough Sherlock.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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