The Real Reason Divorce is So Common

[Zimbabwe]

It doesn't always have to be this way. First off, as @EyeBRollin suggests, in this day and age, you are not her first choice. The contrapositive of that is that she's probably not yours either. The keyword is compromise. However, as a backup, one needs a pre-nup and a few separate accounts to keep on the side. Gold or Crypto is preferred. Since many females earn more than dudes these days, alimony is not really that big of a deal. However, in the pre-nup, waiver of alimony, legal fees and medical fees/premiums should be included. It's still a very dicey situation.

Most people on this Forum (besides our Incel Legion) have the potential to easily be in the top 20% and possibly in the top 5% with enough work. If that isn't her first choice, well her standards are simply unrealistic.

 

[SW15]

in this day and age, you are not her first choice. The contrapositive of that is that she's probably not yours either.

Males are also hardwired to mate with the top tier. None one picks an average, plain-faced, slightly overweight Sally as his top choice. Men settle, just like women do.

This seems like a bad situation for all parties involved. It's a way to go through life without passion. A relationship without passion is bad, especially for women who are emotionally driven.

Marriage also benefits girls because once she loses her looks, very few guys will want her. However, if she married when she is young, she already "locked in her guy". Traditional marriage keeps both men and women in check. Guys are prevented from leaving his wife for a younger model.

There's some merit to this but there's less merit to it now than in the past. Plenty of 45-60 year old women have no problem finding new men. There are plenty of thirsty divorced Baby Boomers and early Gen X'ers out there now.

This also allows average men who aren't married , to date the younger models. People have kids and both wife and husband help raise these kids to become decent adults. Its a fact that kids that only have one parent (especially single mothers) become criminals. Both parents raising kids create a better society.

All research indicates children from 2 parent households achieve better outcomes. Having children is one of the reasons why people still marry. However, for those that have married and had children with women since the 1990s, it's been more likely than not than a man and the mother of his children will no longer be romantically involved by the time the first child turns 18. It's a lousy deal for men and an even worse deal for the children.

Now, because of feminism, loose marriage laws, and Disney marketing; women don't understand why mother nature made her good looking when she is younger (to lock in a mate); her youth is wasted on chasing chad. Society no longer gives women a scarlet A. No longer reins in slutty behavior -- for both men and women. The marriage contract is no longer strong. It's no longer a contract; its more of, when a women gets bored or when the relationship gets hard; she divorces him for cash prizes.

There's not much of an incentive for a woman to stick around if she feels the slightest bit inconvenienced.

Marketing (mentioned above). Societal pressure. Familial pressure. Church brainwashing. Government incentives. Fear of dying alone. Business arrangement/money. Once in a while, because two people love each other and might want to raise kids together.

If it were natural, this thread wouldn't be necessary.

Yes!

 

[RickTheToad]

Do you regret having a family?

I do not have a family currently. I am planning on it with the current GF, but we will see. As I said to her, she's not 100% in the clear. Still monitoring her on how she acts. Once bitten, twice shy type of deal.

Most people on this Forum (besides our Incel Legion) have the potential to easily be in the top 20% and possibly in the top 5% with enough work. If that isn't her first choice, well her standards are simply unrealistic.

Most standards by a female are unrealistic. It's probably why many relationships fail. A dude always needs to the attitude that he's willing to compromise, but he's also willing to leave the relationship/marriage should things get FUBAR'd.

This seems like a bad situation for all parties involved. It's a way to go through life without passion. A relationship without passion is bad, especially for women who are emotionally driven.

Life and relationships are about compromise dude.

 

[HaleyBaron]

Marriage was better without the courts involved. What happened to separate of state and church?

 

[Zimbabwe]

Marriage was better without the courts involved. What happened to separate of state and church?

Divorce is a multi billion dollar industry, so much profit is made from it. It's all by design.

It also works really well for property developers who now can sell twice as many homes. One day these people will get what's coming to them for the damage they have caused to society.

 

[wifehunter]

Divorce is a multi billion dollar industry, so much profit is made from it. It's all by design.

It also works really well for property developers who now can sell twice as many homes. One day these people will get what's coming to them for the damage they have caused to society.

What is coming to them is destruction. Not today, maybe not tommorow...

Corruption ends in destruction. It's only a matter of time.

If they continue on this path, they will destroy themselves.