"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Questions?

MarkHammond

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Is this the kiss of death when u just wanna fukk? When a chick starts askin you the relationship questions?

Have u ever been in love?

What was ur longest relationship?

Why it seem like u have these barriers up?

I think the LJBF zone is better then the pre-relationship zone someone help me!!!!!!!!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There are alot of ways to go around this,first of all,do u want to answer the questions alltogether? What im trying to say is,do u think avoiding them would damage what you have with this girl? each case is unique,are you looking for an LTR? You can go around them with c+f,but if you want to answer them i would suggest:

1)Say something funny here,"yeah with my X grade teacher" or whatever
2)Try to give an answer above 2 months and below 1 year
i can't advise you on the third question since i've never been asked that one,try to be more open towards her though.
 

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So it sounds like she wants a relationship? thats not what i wanted to hear i just wanna screw like a phillips
 

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Well then you gotta be more agressive (as in more kino etc not rape her) and see the outcome,time is against you,given enough time you either end up in an relationship or the friendzone.
 

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Just bouce off serious questions with funny replies - but be clear you are not looking for anything serious and all will be good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MarkHammond

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so if I increase the kino it will squash her relationship aspirations?
 

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I increased the kino and today when she was sayin goodbye she gave me a kiss on the cheek and bit my cheek playfully. i wanna bite her ****
 

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update

been keeping busy iggin her calls not calling her back and stuff. seen her today she says "u dont wanna spend time with me no more, u dont call me" so i figure i got her right were i want her
 
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