"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Questions?

MarkHammond

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Is this the kiss of death when u just wanna fukk? When a chick starts askin you the relationship questions?

Have u ever been in love?

What was ur longest relationship?

Why it seem like u have these barriers up?

I think the LJBF zone is better then the pre-relationship zone someone help me!!!!!!!!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There are alot of ways to go around this,first of all,do u want to answer the questions alltogether? What im trying to say is,do u think avoiding them would damage what you have with this girl? each case is unique,are you looking for an LTR? You can go around them with c+f,but if you want to answer them i would suggest:

1)Say something funny here,"yeah with my X grade teacher" or whatever
2)Try to give an answer above 2 months and below 1 year
i can't advise you on the third question since i've never been asked that one,try to be more open towards her though.
 

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So it sounds like she wants a relationship? thats not what i wanted to hear i just wanna screw like a phillips
 

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Well then you gotta be more agressive (as in more kino etc not rape her) and see the outcome,time is against you,given enough time you either end up in an relationship or the friendzone.
 

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Just bouce off serious questions with funny replies - but be clear you are not looking for anything serious and all will be good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MarkHammond

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so if I increase the kino it will squash her relationship aspirations?
 

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I increased the kino and today when she was sayin goodbye she gave me a kiss on the cheek and bit my cheek playfully. i wanna bite her ****
 

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update

been keeping busy iggin her calls not calling her back and stuff. seen her today she says "u dont wanna spend time with me no more, u dont call me" so i figure i got her right were i want her
 
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