"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TheMan425

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ok, so im interested in a few girls, i know theyre interested in me. at this point im actually considering settling down and having a girlfriend. im pretty sure any one of these girls will go out with me. but i dont know exactly how to pop the question. anyone have any bright ideas on how to ask her?


....btw i know all about the "one-tities" or whatever theyre called, so no need to warn me about that. i dont even know who i want to ask out yet. anyway, i came to this site to 'get good with chicks' and now im pretty good. but i want a gf now, so some feedback would be appreciated. Thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Taviii

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You: -Hey wanna go for a drink on Saturday?
Her: Yes/No.

Problem solved.
 

Gubby

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Chill... most problems from girls comes from taking it all too seriously. You probably won't have success with the first girl, or she won't be for you; but have fun, it's like having friends, you just do it.
 

TheMan425

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thanks. thats a good idea^. but ive already hung out with these 3 beyotches before, by go out i mean bf/gf, i should have clarified. so.. yeah, i can take it to the next level cuz they love my nuts, but how would you ask her to be your girlfriend?

...each have their ups and downs, so im still unsure as to who im gonna ask. we'll see :rock:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol man if they are going to say yeas, just ask the one with the best looks and the best personality, u cant make your mind up??do you even call yourself a DJ??
 

Rocko

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worse comes to worse, you can toss your sloppy seconds here, haha jk. Like you were saing, they will say yes, so just say "you know we'd make a good lookin couple don't ya think? Lets go out on a date, i know this great italian place..."
 
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