"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheMan425

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ok, so im interested in a few girls, i know theyre interested in me. at this point im actually considering settling down and having a girlfriend. im pretty sure any one of these girls will go out with me. but i dont know exactly how to pop the question. anyone have any bright ideas on how to ask her?


....btw i know all about the "one-tities" or whatever theyre called, so no need to warn me about that. i dont even know who i want to ask out yet. anyway, i came to this site to 'get good with chicks' and now im pretty good. but i want a gf now, so some feedback would be appreciated. Thanks
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Taviii

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You: -Hey wanna go for a drink on Saturday?
Her: Yes/No.

Problem solved.
 

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Chill... most problems from girls comes from taking it all too seriously. You probably won't have success with the first girl, or she won't be for you; but have fun, it's like having friends, you just do it.
 

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thanks. thats a good idea^. but ive already hung out with these 3 beyotches before, by go out i mean bf/gf, i should have clarified. so.. yeah, i can take it to the next level cuz they love my nuts, but how would you ask her to be your girlfriend?

...each have their ups and downs, so im still unsure as to who im gonna ask. we'll see :rock:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol man if they are going to say yeas, just ask the one with the best looks and the best personality, u cant make your mind up??do you even call yourself a DJ??
 

Rocko

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worse comes to worse, you can toss your sloppy seconds here, haha jk. Like you were saing, they will say yes, so just say "you know we'd make a good lookin couple don't ya think? Lets go out on a date, i know this great italian place..."
 
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