"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Question

TheMan425

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ok, so im interested in a few girls, i know theyre interested in me. at this point im actually considering settling down and having a girlfriend. im pretty sure any one of these girls will go out with me. but i dont know exactly how to pop the question. anyone have any bright ideas on how to ask her?


....btw i know all about the "one-tities" or whatever theyre called, so no need to warn me about that. i dont even know who i want to ask out yet. anyway, i came to this site to 'get good with chicks' and now im pretty good. but i want a gf now, so some feedback would be appreciated. Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taviii

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You: -Hey wanna go for a drink on Saturday?
Her: Yes/No.

Problem solved.
 

Gubby

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Chill... most problems from girls comes from taking it all too seriously. You probably won't have success with the first girl, or she won't be for you; but have fun, it's like having friends, you just do it.
 

TheMan425

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thanks. thats a good idea^. but ive already hung out with these 3 beyotches before, by go out i mean bf/gf, i should have clarified. so.. yeah, i can take it to the next level cuz they love my nuts, but how would you ask her to be your girlfriend?

...each have their ups and downs, so im still unsure as to who im gonna ask. we'll see :rock:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Zerotwoonenine

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lol man if they are going to say yeas, just ask the one with the best looks and the best personality, u cant make your mind up??do you even call yourself a DJ??
 

Rocko

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worse comes to worse, you can toss your sloppy seconds here, haha jk. Like you were saing, they will say yes, so just say "you know we'd make a good lookin couple don't ya think? Lets go out on a date, i know this great italian place..."
 
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