frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
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that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Public Knows!!!!!!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Its crap like that why so many AFCs get their silly mindset reinforced as the truth.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I wouldnt go as far as saying that its the best I read-but it does make some good points...such as guys make the mistake of being her shrink-or how you're not supposed to brag to them about how many female friends you have-letting your body language speak for you-ask her open ended questions so you wont be the only one talking-but most of all TAKE CONTROL...thats a big one... it separates the boys from the men....will you take control?Originally posted by frivolousz21
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4041&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do