frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4041&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
The Public Knows!!!!!!
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm Joe Dirt
Master Don Juan
Its crap like that why so many AFCs get their silly mindset reinforced as the truth.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I wouldnt go as far as saying that its the best I read-but it does make some good points...such as guys make the mistake of being her shrink-or how you're not supposed to brag to them about how many female friends you have-letting your body language speak for you-ask her open ended questions so you wont be the only one talking-but most of all TAKE CONTROL...thats a big one... it separates the boys from the men....will you take control?Originally posted by frivolousz21
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4041&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do