frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
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that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Master Don Juan
Its crap like that why so many AFCs get their silly mindset reinforced as the truth.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I wouldnt go as far as saying that its the best I read-but it does make some good points...such as guys make the mistake of being her shrink-or how you're not supposed to brag to them about how many female friends you have-letting your body language speak for you-ask her open ended questions so you wont be the only one talking-but most of all TAKE CONTROL...thats a big one... it separates the boys from the men....will you take control?Originally posted by frivolousz21
http://msn.match.com/msn/article.aspx?articleid=4041&TrackingID=516311&BannerID=544657&menuid=6
that pretty much sums up all you gotta do