Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Have any of you cracked it and found how things work in a womens mind...
post your experience
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post your experience
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Charm&Style said:oo come on there has to be some of you with some experience with a psyco chick lol juss share any experience thats worth reading or else :trouble:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
...Tnx :crazy:donArjun said:this topic has been discussed many times , and there are excellent THreads if you use the "search", no offense to you buddy but, ...you have be proactive..
And that is probably why I can't become un-single.Bvbidd:
Women have no soul.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
AngelusPUA said:It's silly to think Aliens don't exist; our universe is so vast it is latterly impossible that Earth is the only inhabitable planet out there. As for the flying saucers and horoscopes, those are mysteries and I can only speculate on the origins but I'm sure beyond any possible doubt that Aliens exist in other inhabitable planets light years away.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm impressed. I never much cared for your posts in the past and you mine obviously http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100131 but I gotta admit your observations and thoughts on women is quite accurate, you appear to have a decent understanding.Deep Dish said:You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
awesum post deep :cheer:Deep Dish said:Women are entirely social, sexual, and emotional creatures, which are all interwoven.
To illustrate the social aspect, find a group of any two or more women talking amongst themselves. It must be solely women, no guys are allowed. They must be talking about whatever they want; in other words, no study groups or other situations where a woman's mind is forced to think about a particular subject. Girl talk is what we're looking for. Regardless of who they are, where they are, how smart they are, their age, or any other factor, they are guaranteed to be talking about only one thing: people. The whole time. It doesn't matter when you start listening and when you stop, it's all people, either about their life or the lives of others. Even when it's librarians or curators of museums; in their free moments they only talk about people, not dinosaurs or rocket science.
I still have never found a single exception, no matter how hard I look. People always say how there's an exception to everything; I have tried hard to find an exception but after thousands of eavesdropped conversations, in every imaginable setting, I gave up. I'm convinced a single exception doesn't exist.
You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
Plop a man into the conversational group and things can be quite different. Oh, nobody get me wrong, there are intelligent women out there who can hold down a deep conversation and quite admirably. But it's only in the presence of men where there is the potential to think about other things. (In all fairness, men also talk a lot about people... but we also talk about other things.)
There have been two times where I thought I had finally found an exception, but upon closer inspection... no.
Women are mostly void of any inner thought. Here, in a nutshell, is their thought process: does it affect me? If it doesn't have some practical application to their bubble life, they will brush it aside. They know about clothing, about hairstyles, about cosmetics, and guessing how much money a guy has or what's his (earning) "potential." Things which affect them. Women are much more likely than men to believe in astrology or spiritual mediums, whereas men are much more likely to believe in UFOs or pseudosciences. Women think horoscopes and the opinions of dead people affect their life, but not space aliens or remote viewing (maybe because they can't see far).And that is probably why I can't become un-single.
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.