Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Have any of you cracked it and found how things work in a womens mind...
post your experience
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post your experience
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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Charm&Style said:oo come on there has to be some of you with some experience with a psyco chick lol juss share any experience thats worth reading or else :trouble:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
...Tnx :crazy:donArjun said:this topic has been discussed many times , and there are excellent THreads if you use the "search", no offense to you buddy but, ...you have be proactive..
And that is probably why I can't become un-single.Bvbidd:
Women have no soul.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
AngelusPUA said:It's silly to think Aliens don't exist; our universe is so vast it is latterly impossible that Earth is the only inhabitable planet out there. As for the flying saucers and horoscopes, those are mysteries and I can only speculate on the origins but I'm sure beyond any possible doubt that Aliens exist in other inhabitable planets light years away.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm impressed. I never much cared for your posts in the past and you mine obviously http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100131 but I gotta admit your observations and thoughts on women is quite accurate, you appear to have a decent understanding.Deep Dish said:You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
awesum post deep :cheer:Deep Dish said:Women are entirely social, sexual, and emotional creatures, which are all interwoven.
To illustrate the social aspect, find a group of any two or more women talking amongst themselves. It must be solely women, no guys are allowed. They must be talking about whatever they want; in other words, no study groups or other situations where a woman's mind is forced to think about a particular subject. Girl talk is what we're looking for. Regardless of who they are, where they are, how smart they are, their age, or any other factor, they are guaranteed to be talking about only one thing: people. The whole time. It doesn't matter when you start listening and when you stop, it's all people, either about their life or the lives of others. Even when it's librarians or curators of museums; in their free moments they only talk about people, not dinosaurs or rocket science.
I still have never found a single exception, no matter how hard I look. People always say how there's an exception to everything; I have tried hard to find an exception but after thousands of eavesdropped conversations, in every imaginable setting, I gave up. I'm convinced a single exception doesn't exist.
You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
Plop a man into the conversational group and things can be quite different. Oh, nobody get me wrong, there are intelligent women out there who can hold down a deep conversation and quite admirably. But it's only in the presence of men where there is the potential to think about other things. (In all fairness, men also talk a lot about people... but we also talk about other things.)
There have been two times where I thought I had finally found an exception, but upon closer inspection... no.
Women are mostly void of any inner thought. Here, in a nutshell, is their thought process: does it affect me? If it doesn't have some practical application to their bubble life, they will brush it aside. They know about clothing, about hairstyles, about cosmetics, and guessing how much money a guy has or what's his (earning) "potential." Things which affect them. Women are much more likely than men to believe in astrology or spiritual mediums, whereas men are much more likely to believe in UFOs or pseudosciences. Women think horoscopes and the opinions of dead people affect their life, but not space aliens or remote viewing (maybe because they can't see far).And that is probably why I can't become un-single.
Me:
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.