Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
Have any of you cracked it and found how things work in a womens mind...
post your experience
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post your experience
:rockon:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
--- The Psychology Of Women ---
- Thread starter Charm&Style
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Jezz
Don Juan
Just to be the first one - NO 
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crazy: MADNESS :crazy:
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
oo come on there has to be some of you with some experience with a psyco chick lol juss share any experience thats worth reading or else :trouble:
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Charm&Style said:
You might wanna just start readin all the threads on this site.... There's loads of "interesting" experiences with some pretty fvcked up chicks. That would save us all alot of time.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
donArjun
Don Juan
this topic has been discussed many times , and there are excellent THreads if you use the "search", no offense to you buddy but, ...you have be proactive ..
..the highlight of my career with women occured about 6 months ago (a few months before I discovered this site). I went on a road trip with several girls. One of them (decient looking: hb5-6 huge titties) confessed to me after the trip that she liked me more than a friend and wanted to go out with me (i was 20 and she was 23 at the time). I am very young looking and this chick is 3 years older than I am so this was a HUGE confidence boost for me. Anyway, i told her stories on the trip about how my brother is acting like a fool about his wedding and and how i used to be really close to him but now i don't even really like him anymore(i told her other stories about my brother, too). Also, I listened to stories about her family (pretty serious stuff, she cried when talking about it). Anyway, when she told me that she liked me she said she realized it when we were talking about my brother and how i was "the bigger man" in the family. I know from so suave that you have to touch a girl's emotions to really stimulate her to like you. I turned her down because I was really interested in another girl at the time and she has a crappy personality and is sort of slvtty. So what I guess i'm saying is that if you get a girl to have emotional feelings for you, your chances of getting with her go up.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
...Tnx :crazy:donArjun said:this topic has been discussed many times , and there are excellent THreads if you use the "search", no offense to you buddy but, ...you have be proactive
Women are entirely social, sexual, and emotional creatures, which are all interwoven.
To illustrate the social aspect, find a group of any two or more women talking amongst themselves. It must be solely women, no guys are allowed. They must be talking about whatever they want; in other words, no study groups or other situations where a woman's mind is forced to think about a particular subject. Girl talk is what we're looking for. Regardless of who they are, where they are, how smart they are, their age, or any other factor, they are guaranteed to be talking about only one thing: people. The whole time. It doesn't matter when you start listening and when you stop, it's all people, either about their life or the lives of others. Even when it's librarians or curators of museums; in their free moments they only talk about people, not dinosaurs or rocket science.
I still have never found a single exception, no matter how hard I look. People always say how there's an exception to everything; I have tried hard to find an exception but after thousands of eavesdropped conversations, in every imaginable setting, I gave up. I'm convinced a single exception doesn't exist.
You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
Plop a man into the conversational group and things can be quite different. Oh, nobody get me wrong, there are intelligent women out there who can hold down a deep conversation and quite admirably. But it's only in the presence of men where there is the potential to think about other things. (In all fairness, men also talk a lot about people... but we also talk about other things.)
There have been two times where I thought I had finally found an exception, but upon closer inspection... no.
Women are mostly void of any inner thought. Here, in a nutshell, is their thought process: does it affect me? If it doesn't have some practical application to their bubble life, they will brush it aside. They know about clothing, about hairstyles, about cosmetics, and guessing how much money a guy has or what's his (earning) "potential." Things which affect them. Women are much more likely than men to believe in astrology or spiritual mediums, whereas men are much more likely to believe in UFOs or pseudosciences. Women think horoscopes and the opinions of dead people affect their life, but not space aliens or remote viewing (maybe because they can't see far).
Me:
:flowers:
Them:
:cuss:
To illustrate the social aspect, find a group of any two or more women talking amongst themselves. It must be solely women, no guys are allowed. They must be talking about whatever they want; in other words, no study groups or other situations where a woman's mind is forced to think about a particular subject. Girl talk is what we're looking for. Regardless of who they are, where they are, how smart they are, their age, or any other factor, they are guaranteed to be talking about only one thing: people. The whole time. It doesn't matter when you start listening and when you stop, it's all people, either about their life or the lives of others. Even when it's librarians or curators of museums; in their free moments they only talk about people, not dinosaurs or rocket science.
I still have never found a single exception, no matter how hard I look. People always say how there's an exception to everything; I have tried hard to find an exception but after thousands of eavesdropped conversations, in every imaginable setting, I gave up. I'm convinced a single exception doesn't exist.
You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
Plop a man into the conversational group and things can be quite different. Oh, nobody get me wrong, there are intelligent women out there who can hold down a deep conversation and quite admirably. But it's only in the presence of men where there is the potential to think about other things. (In all fairness, men also talk a lot about people... but we also talk about other things.)
There have been two times where I thought I had finally found an exception, but upon closer inspection... no.
Women are mostly void of any inner thought. Here, in a nutshell, is their thought process: does it affect me? If it doesn't have some practical application to their bubble life, they will brush it aside. They know about clothing, about hairstyles, about cosmetics, and guessing how much money a guy has or what's his (earning) "potential." Things which affect them. Women are much more likely than men to believe in astrology or spiritual mediums, whereas men are much more likely to believe in UFOs or pseudosciences. Women think horoscopes and the opinions of dead people affect their life, but not space aliens or remote viewing (maybe because they can't see far).
And that is probably why I can't become un-single.
Me:
:flowers:
Them:
:cuss:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Amazing post, DD!
Chosen1
Master Don Juan
At first I was going to disagree with dd but then i realized he is right a women with a group of friends will talk about how nasty people are or great of how good a guy fvcks but if you don't talk about something like lets say ummm the hezbollah/israeli situation in the middle east they won't care
i've noticed this with my mom and my sister while i'm talking about a subject like the training i'll do in the army they swithc subjects but their were some girls that are guy like and care about what guys care about but those girls are rare well sorry about making such a long post
i've noticed this with my mom and my sister while i'm talking about a subject like the training i'll do in the army they swithc subjects but their were some girls that are guy like and care about what guys care about but those girls are rare well sorry about making such a long post
penkitten
Master Don Juan
thats unfair
not only do i believe in ufos, but i also do not believe in horoscopes.
i know it sounds silly that ufos from outerspace and horoscopes based on astrology of outerspace should go hand in hand, but i dont care.
not only do i believe in ufos, but i also do not believe in horoscopes.
i know it sounds silly that ufos from outerspace and horoscopes based on astrology of outerspace should go hand in hand, but i dont care.
AngelusPUA
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It's silly to think Aliens don't exist; our universe is so vast it is latterly impossible that Earth is the only inhabitable planet out there. As for the flying saucers and horoscopes, those are mysteries and I can only speculate on the origins but I'm sure beyond any possible doubt that Aliens exist in other inhabitable planets light years away.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Delta
Master Don Juan
actually, the more pertinent topic is the PSYCHOLOGY OF A HOT WOMAN.
i think you will find that the psychology of a fat chick is pretty similar to the psych of an afc....
but i think the thing that we're most concerned with is the mental working of attractive women who are constantly solicited for sex (overtly/covertly), who have known for years and years that men want them, who can feel the eyes of every guy in the room exploring their every crevasse as soon as they enter the room.
what is the psychology of a woman who knows that they have that power over men and yet are somewhat marginalized as a person because they know that all that acclaim is just for their flesh. that they are discounted as people and men could actually care less what they have to say.
this is the interesting psychology that is of interest to us.
delta
i think you will find that the psychology of a fat chick is pretty similar to the psych of an afc....
but i think the thing that we're most concerned with is the mental working of attractive women who are constantly solicited for sex (overtly/covertly), who have known for years and years that men want them, who can feel the eyes of every guy in the room exploring their every crevasse as soon as they enter the room.
what is the psychology of a woman who knows that they have that power over men and yet are somewhat marginalized as a person because they know that all that acclaim is just for their flesh. that they are discounted as people and men could actually care less what they have to say.
this is the interesting psychology that is of interest to us.
delta
This is a mind-bending thread:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=32713&highlight=book+woman+oscar+wilde
(Hey wait a minute, Deep Dish wrote that, too!)
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=32713&highlight=book+woman+oscar+wilde
(Hey wait a minute, Deep Dish wrote that, too!)
typical
Master Don Juan
Thats cause he knows what he's talking about ............... meh women lol cant live with them cant live without them (if you catch what I mean)
( . )( . )
Banned
I'm impressed. I never much cared for your posts in the past and you mine obviously http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=100131 but I gotta admit your observations and thoughts on women is quite accurate, you appear to have a decent understanding.Deep Dish said:
Good stuff.
Charm&Style
Master Don Juan
awesum post deep :cheer:Deep Dish said:Women are entirely social, sexual, and emotional creatures, which are all interwoven.
To illustrate the social aspect, find a group of any two or more women talking amongst themselves. It must be solely women, no guys are allowed. They must be talking about whatever they want; in other words, no study groups or other situations where a woman's mind is forced to think about a particular subject. Girl talk is what we're looking for. Regardless of who they are, where they are, how smart they are, their age, or any other factor, they are guaranteed to be talking about only one thing: people. The whole time. It doesn't matter when you start listening and when you stop, it's all people, either about their life or the lives of others. Even when it's librarians or curators of museums; in their free moments they only talk about people, not dinosaurs or rocket science.
I still have never found a single exception, no matter how hard I look. People always say how there's an exception to everything; I have tried hard to find an exception but after thousands of eavesdropped conversations, in every imaginable setting, I gave up. I'm convinced a single exception doesn't exist.
You will never find two women talking about meteorology, astronomy, car mechanics, comparing existential nihilism to utilitarianism, or any other intellectual topic, for a sustained period of time, just for the sake of it. You will never hear a group of women engage in debating the benefits of vegetarianism vs. eating meat, just for the sake of it. It just doesn't exist.
Plop a man into the conversational group and things can be quite different. Oh, nobody get me wrong, there are intelligent women out there who can hold down a deep conversation and quite admirably. But it's only in the presence of men where there is the potential to think about other things. (In all fairness, men also talk a lot about people... but we also talk about other things.)
There have been two times where I thought I had finally found an exception, but upon closer inspection... no.
Women are mostly void of any inner thought. Here, in a nutshell, is their thought process: does it affect me? If it doesn't have some practical application to their bubble life, they will brush it aside. They know about clothing, about hairstyles, about cosmetics, and guessing how much money a guy has or what's his (earning) "potential." Things which affect them. Women are much more likely than men to believe in astrology or spiritual mediums, whereas men are much more likely to believe in UFOs or pseudosciences. Women think horoscopes and the opinions of dead people affect their life, but not space aliens or remote viewing (maybe because they can't see far).And that is probably why I can't become un-single.
Me:
:flowers:
Them:
:cuss:
knowing this fact...how do you go about, in the approach with women..if you get what i say..???
my experience with women has been successful so far, but im at the point were ive labled most of them as heartless slvts, it seems like there are very few whole actually love you and mean it...
and i dont mean that theyve broken my heart, heck its just like we bang and they just prove how low and slvty they are after.
now to they psychology of hot women....we all know how they think of their ideal man on the "outside"...which i mean they have good looks, good body, successful, tall...and etc...but when it comes to the inside...to me it seems like they have no clue what they want...and therefor just play games.
...and this is why i posted this thread to get a share of the games girls have played with you..
:cuss:"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.