“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The proper way to approach strangers

tom121

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Well today I was walking home, this FINE chick just walked by past me, as she walks, I saw that booty shaking so fine I wanted to shout "What's up??" the shy guy inside me didn't do anything so I end up walking home alone... and not even got a look from her

the thing is she had a cell phone in her hand so its likely she's walking to her boyfriends house, well that can't be good.

but it could also be walking home, because she had some shopping bags in her hand.

So I was wondering where are the good threads on approaching woman on the street or ANYWHERE ELSE

I did a search on the forum, I came up with these, but maybe someone can direct me to the right thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26892&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57370&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520&highlight=approach+AND+woman

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096&highlight=approach+AND+woman

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HHloser2

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You should have just said the "whats up" and then use the famous "Do i know you?" and go from there........
 

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no no NO

Just because a woman is carrying a cell phone doesn't mean she's talking to her bf or even has a bf.

You are analyzing too much. Don't think, just act.

If you want to check out a thread about a shyguy growing balls, read my BC journal on the main BC thread that started 9-16.

I had never approached one girl before, but I'm doing it all the time now.

meanwhile, I'll post some links about cold approaching for you.

Now stop thinking so much.
 

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After reading Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH?

it was heart breaking 10 seconds of the part to go through my life, I had many chances I did not take, I could've had been with the beautiful popular girl (9/10) in grade 8 or the smart beautiful girl in grade 9, and many more. But I didn't take any of that.

I have wasted my teenage years, now I am in my 18's. Still haven't got a gf, had about 2 dates, don't have many guy friends, and ZERO girl friends...

it's like having a heart attack when I think of the memories
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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