"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well today I was walking home, this FINE chick just walked by past me, as she walks, I saw that booty shaking so fine I wanted to shout "What's up??" the shy guy inside me didn't do anything so I end up walking home alone... and not even got a look from her

the thing is she had a cell phone in her hand so its likely she's walking to her boyfriends house, well that can't be good.

but it could also be walking home, because she had some shopping bags in her hand.

So I was wondering where are the good threads on approaching woman on the street or ANYWHERE ELSE

I did a search on the forum, I came up with these, but maybe someone can direct me to the right thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26892&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57370&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520&highlight=approach+AND+woman

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096&highlight=approach+AND+woman

thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You should have just said the "whats up" and then use the famous "Do i know you?" and go from there........
 
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no no NO

Just because a woman is carrying a cell phone doesn't mean she's talking to her bf or even has a bf.

You are analyzing too much. Don't think, just act.

If you want to check out a thread about a shyguy growing balls, read my BC journal on the main BC thread that started 9-16.

I had never approached one girl before, but I'm doing it all the time now.

meanwhile, I'll post some links about cold approaching for you.

Now stop thinking so much.
 
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After reading Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH?

it was heart breaking 10 seconds of the part to go through my life, I had many chances I did not take, I could've had been with the beautiful popular girl (9/10) in grade 8 or the smart beautiful girl in grade 9, and many more. But I didn't take any of that.

I have wasted my teenage years, now I am in my 18's. Still haven't got a gf, had about 2 dates, don't have many guy friends, and ZERO girl friends...

it's like having a heart attack when I think of the memories
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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