"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The proper way to approach strangers

tom121

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Well today I was walking home, this FINE chick just walked by past me, as she walks, I saw that booty shaking so fine I wanted to shout "What's up??" the shy guy inside me didn't do anything so I end up walking home alone... and not even got a look from her

the thing is she had a cell phone in her hand so its likely she's walking to her boyfriends house, well that can't be good.

but it could also be walking home, because she had some shopping bags in her hand.

So I was wondering where are the good threads on approaching woman on the street or ANYWHERE ELSE

I did a search on the forum, I came up with these, but maybe someone can direct me to the right thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=26892&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57370&highlight=approach

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=56520&highlight=approach+AND+woman

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096&highlight=approach+AND+woman

thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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HHloser2

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You should have just said the "whats up" and then use the famous "Do i know you?" and go from there........
 

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no no NO

Just because a woman is carrying a cell phone doesn't mean she's talking to her bf or even has a bf.

You are analyzing too much. Don't think, just act.

If you want to check out a thread about a shyguy growing balls, read my BC journal on the main BC thread that started 9-16.

I had never approached one girl before, but I'm doing it all the time now.

meanwhile, I'll post some links about cold approaching for you.

Now stop thinking so much.
 

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After reading Are you a guy who JUST CANT APPROACH?

it was heart breaking 10 seconds of the part to go through my life, I had many chances I did not take, I could've had been with the beautiful popular girl (9/10) in grade 8 or the smart beautiful girl in grade 9, and many more. But I didn't take any of that.

I have wasted my teenage years, now I am in my 18's. Still haven't got a gf, had about 2 dates, don't have many guy friends, and ZERO girl friends...

it's like having a heart attack when I think of the memories
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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