"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Prom Thread

Bryce556

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Ok so since some of us seniors will be having our prom comeing up in several months if thought id start this thread. Any thoughts idea's suggestions you want to offer, or questions you may have post in this thread.



To start off here's some of mine:

I am having trouble finding somone to go to prom with, there is a girl that is hot and would go with me and probbly have sex with me on the evening of, and also allow me to be more social durring the event. On the other hand I don't want a relasionship with this girl, there is serveral others I want to acually go on a date with or ask, some have date's already :(

When choosing somone to go with what should I look for? Is a gr 11 or a Gr 12 girl better? I was thinking gr 12 becuase it is her prom too. Also how would I go about asking? One girl I asked on the topic told me she would like somthing fancy done such as having you invite in some romantic way ie. spelling it out in a food, candy...


Any Ideas? Also any questions etc.

GO!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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redspicyflag said:
Choose the girl you'll have the most fun with

:D
AKA the hottest, loosest one. (For Single Men)
 

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Ooh...I've got prom coming up in late April...need to start getting a date ready!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why do you feel as though you should be going with someone??
 

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I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
 

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Skepsis said:
I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
Depending on the limo, you can fit eight to ten people comfortably inside it. That's about $40 a person. And if you already have your suit from homecoming and previous dances you'll probably only need a new tie to match your date for about $20. Tickets vary, but I think thay're typically around $40 so buy your date something nice (flowers) for $20 and you're looking at a total of less than $150 which definitely isn't bad.

It's not too different to us men, but our female counterparts put HUGE emphasis on it as a major milestone in life.

It's fun though, you should definitely go and grab a date. :yes:
 

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redspicyflag said:
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
I like the idea but the ice has been broken for awhile lol. Thanks though!
 
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