"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Prom Thread

Bryce556

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Ok so since some of us seniors will be having our prom comeing up in several months if thought id start this thread. Any thoughts idea's suggestions you want to offer, or questions you may have post in this thread.



To start off here's some of mine:

I am having trouble finding somone to go to prom with, there is a girl that is hot and would go with me and probbly have sex with me on the evening of, and also allow me to be more social durring the event. On the other hand I don't want a relasionship with this girl, there is serveral others I want to acually go on a date with or ask, some have date's already :(

When choosing somone to go with what should I look for? Is a gr 11 or a Gr 12 girl better? I was thinking gr 12 becuase it is her prom too. Also how would I go about asking? One girl I asked on the topic told me she would like somthing fancy done such as having you invite in some romantic way ie. spelling it out in a food, candy...


Any Ideas? Also any questions etc.

GO!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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redspicyflag said:
Choose the girl you'll have the most fun with

:D
AKA the hottest, loosest one. (For Single Men)
 

sandman6991

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Ooh...I've got prom coming up in late April...need to start getting a date ready!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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just so suave

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Why do you feel as though you should be going with someone??
 

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I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
 

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Skepsis said:
I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
Depending on the limo, you can fit eight to ten people comfortably inside it. That's about $40 a person. And if you already have your suit from homecoming and previous dances you'll probably only need a new tie to match your date for about $20. Tickets vary, but I think thay're typically around $40 so buy your date something nice (flowers) for $20 and you're looking at a total of less than $150 which definitely isn't bad.

It's not too different to us men, but our female counterparts put HUGE emphasis on it as a major milestone in life.

It's fun though, you should definitely go and grab a date. :yes:
 

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redspicyflag said:
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
I like the idea but the ice has been broken for awhile lol. Thanks though!
 
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