"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Prom Thread

Bryce556

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Ok so since some of us seniors will be having our prom comeing up in several months if thought id start this thread. Any thoughts idea's suggestions you want to offer, or questions you may have post in this thread.



To start off here's some of mine:

I am having trouble finding somone to go to prom with, there is a girl that is hot and would go with me and probbly have sex with me on the evening of, and also allow me to be more social durring the event. On the other hand I don't want a relasionship with this girl, there is serveral others I want to acually go on a date with or ask, some have date's already :(

When choosing somone to go with what should I look for? Is a gr 11 or a Gr 12 girl better? I was thinking gr 12 becuase it is her prom too. Also how would I go about asking? One girl I asked on the topic told me she would like somthing fancy done such as having you invite in some romantic way ie. spelling it out in a food, candy...


Any Ideas? Also any questions etc.

GO!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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redspicyflag said:
Choose the girl you'll have the most fun with

:D
AKA the hottest, loosest one. (For Single Men)
 

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Ooh...I've got prom coming up in late April...need to start getting a date ready!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why do you feel as though you should be going with someone??
 

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I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
 

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Skepsis said:
I've had the most beautiful, intelligent, and all-around greatest girlfriend for a few months so I'm not too concerned about finding a date...but I could always use some romantic methods for asking her to prom. It's a memorable event, it should be matched (preferably surpassed) by an equally memorable action.

Come on you innovative geniuses, throw me a bone!
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
 

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Crazy Asian said:
i would ask someone to prom, but don't u have to rent a limo and spend tons of money? this will be my first year going to prom (11), is it a lot different from the other dances?
Depending on the limo, you can fit eight to ten people comfortably inside it. That's about $40 a person. And if you already have your suit from homecoming and previous dances you'll probably only need a new tie to match your date for about $20. Tickets vary, but I think thay're typically around $40 so buy your date something nice (flowers) for $20 and you're looking at a total of less than $150 which definitely isn't bad.

It's not too different to us men, but our female counterparts put HUGE emphasis on it as a major milestone in life.

It's fun though, you should definitely go and grab a date. :yes:
 

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redspicyflag said:
Dude

Get something that says

since you've broken the ice,

will you be my prom date

then freeze it in a block of ice

and send it to her class or something with a chisel or hammer
I like the idea but the ice has been broken for awhile lol. Thanks though!
 
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