I recommended an ex gf to go to therapy. She went a male therapist. She claimed that he was checking her out. I dont know how accurate this claim is. The issue is that if an attractive crazy girl goes to a male therapist there may be sexual tension. If she goes to a female therapist, she will most likely just reinforce destructive female behaviors. Female therapist have also been indoctrinated by feminist propaganda. Therapy becomes a Catch 22.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The problem with girls going to therapy
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- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Aren't most male therapists wussies more or less?
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Not all of them. Good male therapists, the non male feminist kind, are the only ones a guy should be seeing.
But most therapists choose their line of work to try and cure their own crazy
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Yes. Maybe an older guy therapist who went to school earlier, not in recent years.
True. I've known quite a few and also dated a few. They really put up a facade but in private, they have major issues themselves.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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No. I have a male therapist. He’s ex law enforcement, black belt in hung gar, real level headed dude.
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I once heard someone say that anyone who gets a degree in mental health (psychology, etc.) always got that degree because they more than anything wanted to learn about themselves. Typically they have some type of trauma in their past that pushes them into these fields.
Granted, I have seen therapists do good work regardless of that.
Yes, their own past can be the catalyst for some individuals entering that field, but a part of that educational process involves recognizing and identifying their personal issues, dealing with them, putting them to rest, and living an improved future life…
“The unexamined life is not worth living.” ~ Socrates