"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The problem is there are too many men.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
i dont see how... all the 10 countries listed are not "Western"
hit that pipe again...
EyeBRollin
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None of them hold any power in what is geopolitically considered “the west.” In other words no one cares about those countries.
If God was against homosexuality he would have invented a plague to wipe them out.....oh wait.
But it's backfired because of these so-called bisexuals and the brothers on the down low.
So no, not thank fvck for the lgbt (qrivyedp)
MrWood
Master Don Juan
unless you live where you have access to these women or live there.
that was the point actually... get outside your stupid bubble of 'merica and experience actual non-pedestalized women
*sigh*
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mellow_yellow
Don Juan
What do you mean exactly...that it's easy or that for it to be considered "hard work", you need to put endless hours into it? My point is that it's very possible to be working very hard and make very little progress unless you apply some strategy to the approach. I think that's why so many people drop off and fail even when they have the right intentions.