"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The problem is there are too many men.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
i dont see how... all the 10 countries listed are not "Western"
hit that pipe again...
EyeBRollin
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None of them hold any power in what is geopolitically considered “the west.” In other words no one cares about those countries.
If God was against homosexuality he would have invented a plague to wipe them out.....oh wait.
But it's backfired because of these so-called bisexuals and the brothers on the down low.
So no, not thank fvck for the lgbt (qrivyedp)
MrWood
Master Don Juan
unless you live where you have access to these women or live there.
that was the point actually... get outside your stupid bubble of 'merica and experience actual non-pedestalized women
*sigh*
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
mellow_yellow
Don Juan
What do you mean exactly...that it's easy or that for it to be considered "hard work", you need to put endless hours into it? My point is that it's very possible to be working very hard and make very little progress unless you apply some strategy to the approach. I think that's why so many people drop off and fail even when they have the right intentions.