"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Power of Walking

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How about the rucksack?

I made a makeshift rucksack with 40 pounds of weights put into a durable camping backpack with straps and back support. It’s a straight up walking workout.

My schedule is really busy that’s why I was just doing sprints. With just a few minutes of quick sprints it gets the cardio pumping and mouth watering. Drinking that water that forms in the mouth is a serious key to keeping healthy.

Sometimes I also do jump roping and have a few different techniques for that. It’s a great workout that gets the mouth watery and cardiovascular pumping.
Don't use a rucksack for long periods of time unless you want serious back issues. Get a weighted vest, well worth the investment.

Rucksacks do not distribute weight properly like a weighted vest does and it leads to injury. There is a reason many more people in the military are injured due to carrying equipment around every year than are injured in combat.

I have a 60lb adjustable one and a 30lb joggers one that I use for varying purposes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is that so common in your routine?
There is no set routine.
Sometimes he can go with me, sometimes he's busy. Sometimes I'm away on business somewhere else, sometimes he is away for his stuff. Relax man. Seriously.
 
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If you wake up super early to go on a long walk (I’m talking like up at 3am and walking from 5-8am) you will not need as much sleep. As demonstrated, I am waking up at 3am, doing a set of pushups first thing out of bed and then getting dressed and cleaned up for a 5am departure of walking around town.

Seriously think I’m on to something. I don’t get tired anymore and I need a lot less sleep. Of course I’m sort of excited about my life in general as well. That helps too. I mean if your life sucks you’re going to sleep a lot and certainly not taking 3 hour walks before the break of dawn.

But I carry a book and a backpack. No phone. And then do a pitstop for peppermint tea somewhere followed by 7am mass and after that I’m walking an hour home. By the time I’m home the rest of the town is just waking up but I feel invigorated.
 

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Everyday between 5:30 and 6 AM is when I get up (work or not). Most of the days I go to a park not far from where I live and I stretch, exercise etc for an hour. By the end I am usually couple of thousand steps in. This helps clear my mind. According to phone I average over 14k per day, this includes walk in the evening after eating usually and all the activity in between.

Just feels good to move. Hate being still too much but at work I do at desk.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have a 60lb adjustable one and a 30lb joggers one that I use for varying purposes.
I vouch for weighted vest. I’ve been using it this year, increased the weight gradually from 3% of BW to now 15%. I’ve become visibly leaner and stronger. To the point where strangers are complimenting me.

Get a weighted vest. I walk 2 miles, twice a week with the vest on, in my barefoot shoes. The rest of my walking is unweighted. It works. And is easy on the joints.
 

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I vouch for weighted vest. I’ve been using it this year, increased the weight gradually from 3% of BW to now 15%. I’ve become visibly leaner and stronger. To the point where strangers are complimenting me.

Get a weighted vest. I walk 2 miles, twice a week with the vest on, in my barefoot shoes. The rest of my walking is unweighted. It works. And is easy on the joints.
how many pounds do you pack it with when going on your walks?
 

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I just walked yesterday last night, to the farthest basketball court away from my house, watched a few kids play basketball for a few minutes then knocked out a few sets of push ups. Got a bunch of stares after that lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I've grown so tired of lifting weights, it's a chore and it doesn't make me feel good. Other than HIIT, I think walking/hiking is by far the best form of exercise for mood/cognition.
You can try calisthenics. Pull ups, chin ups, dips, weighted push ups, pike push ups. You will still gain lean muscle if you are on calorie surplus. Heavy weights make me slow and it’s easy to fry your CNS if you overtrain.
 

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I walked 5 miles with 20 pounds on the dirt trail yesterday.
It wasn’t too heavy. Stride was good.
I was fasting hadn’t ate breakfast. Just drank a liter of water with electrolytes. Felt great. Best way to do cardio in my opinion. Washed down a whey protein shake and couple medjool dates in the car after the walk.
I’m headed out now for a light 3.5 mile run on the trail without the vest. I rather just put the vest on when walking and not for running.
 
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