There?s a play coming up in town and as I did a search online to read up some scoops about it, I stumbled onto a girl?s blog. It seems to me that she?s part of the play and she?s pretty hot, and my type. I?d like to hook her up and probably meet up at the play. I got her e-mail from the blog, but I?m can?t really figure out how to initiate contact without sounding like a stalker or desperate, and leave a great impression that I?m confident, cool etc. Also, if I do get to meet up with her on the play itself, any tips or idea what I should do? Thanks
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Play
- Thread starter Diaoz
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Good luck buddy, they don't allow stalkers back-stage. The only way to meet her is to wait outside until the performance is over and look like the stalker that you are
Honestly though, a good way to get the job done is to see the play and then send an e-mail to her praising her performance. Don't write it at 3 in the morning, then you'll look like the psycho stlker that you are. Send a pic and ask her if you have the looks of an actor and if she can advise you on how to make inroads into the 'acting' field. See if you can build up correspondence with her thru e-mail. If she likes your pic and your convo in e-mail she just might go out with you. Unless of course, she is married or has a guy already!
Honestly though, a good way to get the job done is to see the play and then send an e-mail to her praising her performance. Don't write it at 3 in the morning, then you'll look like the psycho stlker that you are. Send a pic and ask her if you have the looks of an actor and if she can advise you on how to make inroads into the 'acting' field. See if you can build up correspondence with her thru e-mail. If she likes your pic and your convo in e-mail she just might go out with you. Unless of course, she is married or has a guy already!
Wel, blogs tell much about a person and I was just thinking if there's some way to know her. What's more she stays near me. But anyway, I wasn't saying to meet her in the backstage. What I was thinking was just to mail her and perharps start a conversation and possibly meet her before/after for a meal. Stuffs like that, was asking for tips/suggestions on what to say for the initial mail