There?s a play coming up in town and as I did a search online to read up some scoops about it, I stumbled onto a girl?s blog. It seems to me that she?s part of the play and she?s pretty hot, and my type. I?d like to hook her up and probably meet up at the play. I got her e-mail from the blog, but I?m can?t really figure out how to initiate contact without sounding like a stalker or desperate, and leave a great impression that I?m confident, cool etc. Also, if I do get to meet up with her on the play itself, any tips or idea what I should do? Thanks
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The Play
- Thread starter Diaoz
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Good luck buddy, they don't allow stalkers back-stage. The only way to meet her is to wait outside until the performance is over and look like the stalker that you are
Honestly though, a good way to get the job done is to see the play and then send an e-mail to her praising her performance. Don't write it at 3 in the morning, then you'll look like the psycho stlker that you are. Send a pic and ask her if you have the looks of an actor and if she can advise you on how to make inroads into the 'acting' field. See if you can build up correspondence with her thru e-mail. If she likes your pic and your convo in e-mail she just might go out with you. Unless of course, she is married or has a guy already!
Honestly though, a good way to get the job done is to see the play and then send an e-mail to her praising her performance. Don't write it at 3 in the morning, then you'll look like the psycho stlker that you are. Send a pic and ask her if you have the looks of an actor and if she can advise you on how to make inroads into the 'acting' field. See if you can build up correspondence with her thru e-mail. If she likes your pic and your convo in e-mail she just might go out with you. Unless of course, she is married or has a guy already!
Wel, blogs tell much about a person and I was just thinking if there's some way to know her. What's more she stays near me. But anyway, I wasn't saying to meet her in the backstage. What I was thinking was just to mail her and perharps start a conversation and possibly meet her before/after for a meal. Stuffs like that, was asking for tips/suggestions on what to say for the initial mail