"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The pictures game....

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This is my idea for a thread...everybody post their own personal opinion of an HB 9 or 10 girl by linking to a picture.

I've always wanted to do this to see how my taste lines up with everyone else's and whether we are competing for the same girls, or if all of us have completely different style targets. If it takes off, the thread could even be archived because it might prove that not everyone agrees on beauty, as obvious at it might seem to others...

Guideline: Try and avoid celebrities or models.

Let's go! This should be interesting.....

-Darth

P.S. Also, when pictures are linked to, feel free to comment if you disagree that the girl is indeed an HB 9 or 10.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'll start:

http://hubpages.com/u/295671_f260.jpg

An easy 10 (if her personality matches her looks)

That's the other thing, we can't judge personality, so when we call a girl a 10, we're assuming that she's not a dumbas$ and that she has a good character.
 

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It's going to be hard to list HB9's and 10's if we're restricted to women that aren't models. Around my area there are models everywhere so my standards are kind of tweaked, though just to stay on topic, this girl has one of the finest bodies I've seen and has a really cute face (she doesn't model either, she's just a go go dancer).

http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y103/Blink34182/PB121520copy.jpg
 

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Darth said:
I've always wanted to do this to see how my taste lines up with everyone else's and whether we are competing for the same girls, or if all of us have completely different style targets.
you're gonna find everyone has different tastes
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hmm you guys can probably tell what my physical type is - thats pretty straight foreward i guess

If u wanna compare the forum members, which types of girls we like... I would say that I'm the extreme opposite of someone like Darth..

So its interesting to see what every1 else is into.
 

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Not seen any 10s so far. Then again my rating has less to do with bodies because lets face it, 90% of the girls you see either have a hot body or could get one with a little elbow grease and some jenny craig.

I rate them more on their faces than their bodies. Don't get me wrong bod is important but a hot face is much more attractive than a hot body.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Love said:
Not seen any 10s so far. Then again my rating has less to do with bodies because lets face it, 90% of the girls you see either have a hot body or could get one with a little elbow grease and some jenny craig.

I rate them more on their faces than their bodies. Don't get me wrong bod is important but a hot face is much more attractive than a hot body.
I completely agree with you on this, I'd rather go out with a woman with a cute face but less than average body than a girl with a nice body but below average face.
 

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In many cases, I find cute HB 8s more appealing to me than hot HB 9s...
 

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Tastes definitely vary HUGELY. I don't consider any girl a 10 because nobody's perfect. This is how I'd assess the ones above me:

Darth: Cute (8).
War Against Betaism: Nasty but nice body (6).
DJVladdy: The first girl I'd say 9, but she looks airbrushed/fake. Kim Kardashian I'd give an 8 (sexy but not my thing, too dark). The MILF I'd give an 8.
r0cky: Agree on the 9 but she's fake looking to me.
daygameguy: Agree on the 8s. And yes, I agree some of them are extremely appealing due to their naturalness.
Luke!!: I'd say 8, again not into dark skin.

My example of a 9 with a nice natural look would be this chick:
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=SRRSOYN-SUP
Some will undoubtedly disagree...
 

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daygameguy said:
In many cases, I find cute HB 8s more appealing to me than hot HB 9s...
Its because your too AFC to pick up a 9.
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LoL Im Joking with you Daygame, dont have an attack lol. Anyway, I know what you mean here and i agree with you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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In2theGame said:
Its because your too AFC to pick up a 9.
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LoL Im Joking with you Daygame, dont have an attack lol. Anyway, I know what you mean here and i agree with you.
LOL you know what, sometimes grapes are sour.. but its not about inability to game 9s.. its just that I like a down-to-earth calm cute HB 8 personality better than the hottie HB 9 personality.

But HB 10s will always be on the top of my list. No question about that.;)
 

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Teej said:
War Against Betaism: Nasty but nice body (6).
-_- you serious? Maybe that wasn't a good picture of her face, here's a better one:

http://img186.imageshack.us/img186/4793/ebb1999frk1.jpg

I don't know who that guy is. I dunno her first name but she just goes by Jackie, she's hailed as the best go go dancer in Southern California.

Well I guess my tastes vary greatly compared to others here, since I'm asian I naturally prefer asians more. Most of the women that have been shown here are 8's at best or under 8's to me.
 

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beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
-_- you serious? Maybe that wasn't a good picture of her face, here's a better one:

http://img186.imageshack.us/img186/4793/ebb1999frk1.jpg

I don't know who that guy is. I dunno her first name but she just goes by Jackie, she's hailed as the best go go dancer in Southern California.

Well I guess my tastes vary greatly compared to others here, since I'm asian I naturally prefer asians more. Most of the women that have been shown here are 8's at best or under 8's to me.
Just proves how different guys' tastes are, that's all. I'm sure there's girls I'd get all "weak in the knees" over whom you wouldn't even look at twice... daygameguy said it best...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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