How many people here have actually cold approached a woman? How many people here have actually completed the bootacamp? How long are your going to wait until you start working on your goals?
Chances are, you never will. I'm not trying to be rude, but this is the reality of it. History has told us that the majority of people don't achieve their goals. They are to busy waiting for that perfect time, that perfect time when they have a particular thing or maybe when they dont have a particular thing.
The perfect time is a myth, its a fantasy which you created that tells your brain that one day... you will be happy. Happiness and Motivation aren't things that you have, they are things that you do. You don't do something to make you happy, you do happy.
Do you day dream? Do you make up fantasies in which you are impressing that girl, bashing that guy, dancing like a maniac, having a cool party, or simply not giving a ****? Day dreaming is a gift and a curse.
It's a gift, because you now know what you want. If you ever want to know what you want then just close your eyes and let your mind wander, it will go to where it wants to be.
Daydreaming is the most unproductive thing you can possibly to, it is your brain making up a false reality in which you are happy. But when you come to, your brain realises something, your not happy.
You want to know how to make your day dreams become reality? Sure, i'll tell you. Stop daydreaming. If you stop creating a false reality then eventually you will be forced to make a reality in which you actually are happy.
Remember,
you don't win silver, you lose gold
Stop waiting for the perfect time, it doesn't exist. Instead of day dreaming, why not actually think of ways your dreams can become reality. Plan out every aspect of it and make sure its believable, now instead of daydreaming, think about yourself doing this but succesfully, doing things you know you can do.
Work your way up to happiness.
It will be hard, it will be intense. You have to work for it, but in the end, it doesnt really matter. You can keep day dreaming if you want, until (and one day it will come) you become content with mediocrity.
But not me, i choose to fight. I'm not going to let my environment dominate me, i choose to work my way to the top. But once again, in the end, it's irrelavent.
Will you reach your goals? Probably not. I'm not here to tell you everything will be okay. Take control of your own life, there is noone watching over us but ourselves. Noone is going to live for you.
Lock yourself up in a dream, or live, who cares? Only you. Take lifes dissapointments and stand proud. For you my friend... have chosen happiness.
Chances are, you never will. I'm not trying to be rude, but this is the reality of it. History has told us that the majority of people don't achieve their goals. They are to busy waiting for that perfect time, that perfect time when they have a particular thing or maybe when they dont have a particular thing.
The perfect time is a myth, its a fantasy which you created that tells your brain that one day... you will be happy. Happiness and Motivation aren't things that you have, they are things that you do. You don't do something to make you happy, you do happy.
Do you day dream? Do you make up fantasies in which you are impressing that girl, bashing that guy, dancing like a maniac, having a cool party, or simply not giving a ****? Day dreaming is a gift and a curse.
It's a gift, because you now know what you want. If you ever want to know what you want then just close your eyes and let your mind wander, it will go to where it wants to be.
Daydreaming is the most unproductive thing you can possibly to, it is your brain making up a false reality in which you are happy. But when you come to, your brain realises something, your not happy.
You want to know how to make your day dreams become reality? Sure, i'll tell you. Stop daydreaming. If you stop creating a false reality then eventually you will be forced to make a reality in which you actually are happy.
Remember,
you don't win silver, you lose gold
Stop waiting for the perfect time, it doesn't exist. Instead of day dreaming, why not actually think of ways your dreams can become reality. Plan out every aspect of it and make sure its believable, now instead of daydreaming, think about yourself doing this but succesfully, doing things you know you can do.
Work your way up to happiness.
It will be hard, it will be intense. You have to work for it, but in the end, it doesnt really matter. You can keep day dreaming if you want, until (and one day it will come) you become content with mediocrity.
But not me, i choose to fight. I'm not going to let my environment dominate me, i choose to work my way to the top. But once again, in the end, it's irrelavent.
Will you reach your goals? Probably not. I'm not here to tell you everything will be okay. Take control of your own life, there is noone watching over us but ourselves. Noone is going to live for you.
Lock yourself up in a dream, or live, who cares? Only you. Take lifes dissapointments and stand proud. For you my friend... have chosen happiness.
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