"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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the perfect girl

The Duke

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Define your perfect girl!

Mine would be:
-HB9
-5yrs younger than me
-Knows how to cook
-Freak in the bed
-Knows how to dress
-Charming
-Doesn't need constant validation
-Has her own hobbies
-Slightly strong & independent, yet submissive to me
-Good family relationships
-No Kids
-Divorced once
-Can discuss and compromise
-More rational than irrational
-Sweet
-Good spending habits

I'll keep dreaming of her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Diaz from Brooklyn 99. Pretends to be a hard a$$ with everyone else, but is a *****cat with me... :up:

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Define your perfect girl!
-5yrs younger than me
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Late 30s? Why?

@TheMonkeyKing , I like the long sleek back, but she lacks boobs and butt. Also her cheekbones are rather high placed and angular as a man's should be, and not round and fuller as an ideal woman's. Further, her ears protrude. You can do better than this one pal ;)
 

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Late 30s? Why?

@TheMonkeyKing , I like the long sleek back, but she lacks boobs and butt. Also her cheekbones are rather high placed and angular as a man's should be, and not round and fuller as an ideal woman's. Further, her ears protrude. You can do better than this one pal ;)
Cheers man. You're probably right. I don't really have a type though. And I would certainly get bored looking at the 'perfect' Instagram archetype every day. As long as she doesn't belong in a circus, I don't mind flawed beauty. Guess she is a bit horsey looking. Though the butt could be a few degrees rounder, my preference would also be towards the athletic rather than the curvaceous end of the spectrum.

I think with this one it's mainly the faux b!tchy character she plays. I would sit and laugh at that all day long.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why divorced?
Because once they have been married before, she hopefully won't be as excited to do it again as she was the first time. The fantasy has been somewhat tainted by the second go around. That's my thought anyways.

I had a 5yr LTR with a girl that had very low partner count and had never been married....her desire to be married led to the demise of our relationship.
 

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Late 30s? Why?
I really don't connect with younger women. Don't have much in common with them. I'm more of an old soul. Also older women are less likely to want babies. By 30 they have some things figured out in life. They've also lost some pu$$y power by that age. I usually get girls about my age that look 8-10yrs younger. But partner count definitely has an effect on them as they age. No doubt there, seen it too many times.
 

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No such thing as a perfect woman. If there was such a farce, this forum would not exist.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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