"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The pain won't go away....

cola

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You sound like a punk-***** right now stop crying and get over it already.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonGorgon

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Its not your fault man.. you fell in love with a woman who does not want love.. Most women dont want love.. they only want to give love..

You may need counseling and to make some new friends who can take you out to find new women.
 

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Enough good replies has been mentioned.

I just wanted to say take special note to Interceptor and The Logical Player.

Especially what The Logical Player said, in this world, there is really no backing to the world ILU. The word is just a cheat code to get what you want.

Yea dude, so learn from it. God bless and I hope you recover from it soon. :)
 

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To Logical Player: I'm not sure how you game(I'm sure you'll say you bag all kinds of "hos") But not every girl in the world is a ho, and I think you might get better results if you treat women as more than just objects. You can get more confidence if you objectify them all as "hos". But they are people to, just like you and me, and most of them are just as smart as you and me. So just remember that.

And everybody falls in love at some point, even the most expierenced DJ's. I would be willing to bet the farm that at some point it has happened to you(maybe thats why your so bitter?), and if it hasn't I'm sure it will. No matter how much you say you wouldn't let it happen or it couldn't. Just be logical, and realize that this is something that every man will go through at least once in their life. It hurts, it sucks and its part of life.

And telling someone you love them just to get what you want, is pretty sad. While when I was younger I would lie to a girl, but to just tell someone you love them to **** them. Is pretty sick. Just remember what goes around comes around man, and if what you say is true I'd say your merry-go-round is picking up speed pretty quick.

This is not a flame either.

(EDIT: Didn't realize the logical player was banned at the time of the post)
 
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