"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The pain won't go away....
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonGorgon
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You may need counseling and to make some new friends who can take you out to find new women.
I just wanted to say take special note to Interceptor and The Logical Player.
Especially what The Logical Player said, in this world, there is really no backing to the world ILU. The word is just a cheat code to get what you want.
Yea dude, so learn from it. God bless and I hope you recover from it soon.
And everybody falls in love at some point, even the most expierenced DJ's. I would be willing to bet the farm that at some point it has happened to you(maybe thats why your so bitter?), and if it hasn't I'm sure it will. No matter how much you say you wouldn't let it happen or it couldn't. Just be logical, and realize that this is something that every man will go through at least once in their life. It hurts, it sucks and its part of life.
And telling someone you love them just to get what you want, is pretty sad. While when I was younger I would lie to a girl, but to just tell someone you love them to **** them. Is pretty sick. Just remember what goes around comes around man, and if what you say is true I'd say your merry-go-round is picking up speed pretty quick.
This is not a flame either.
(EDIT: Didn't realize the logical player was banned at the time of the post)