"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The overheard technique

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Do you guys think this is good?

You say something loud while talking to friend to get a girl you're walking by or standing next too in a party.

I myself havent tested it much but maybe some of you already did something like this.

Recently me and my wing saw this girl drive really fast and we were talking about how men are better drivers then women.

One girl walks by me and I make sure I said really loud, "thats why men are better at driving."

She just kept walking.

Any advice?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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[o_0]

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this technique is lame
 

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yeah, it needs work, but i think your on the right track.

also think about what else you can use to gain thier attention. magic tricks, ask them if they think women or men lie more, etc etc
 

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This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by [o_0]
this technique is lame
Im not saying its an actual technique just something I thought of.

But I'm not surpised that you would knock that since it's not you saying that its the god of all pick ups.
you ****ing n00b.

Originally posted by sexualchocolate
i can see it getting her attention and drawn into a conversation.
Yes, whole point.

Originally posted by SynapsyS
This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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Read what?

It's not all like that. Basically its any topic that you think that would draw them in.

Dont matter what it is.

You have to think more than in just one area.
 

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Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
 

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yeah but then she says "why do you say that", then you're screwed unless you come up with a good response to that, that's valid and doesnt make you look dumb lol ;)

i find the only good time for magic tricks is killing time, and not making a big deal out of them. if they're good (i know a good one with a coin, and another good one with a coin and a sugar pack like at a resturaunt), then they'll be enough alone without u having to say "LOOK AT THIS SWEET AZZ MAGIC TRICK" and making it look geeky lol
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
Yea I got styles book and read about it.


But that mercy thing...thats bull, man. :eek:
 
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