"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The overheard technique

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Do you guys think this is good?

You say something loud while talking to friend to get a girl you're walking by or standing next too in a party.

I myself havent tested it much but maybe some of you already did something like this.

Recently me and my wing saw this girl drive really fast and we were talking about how men are better drivers then women.

One girl walks by me and I make sure I said really loud, "thats why men are better at driving."

She just kept walking.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this technique is lame
 

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yeah, it needs work, but i think your on the right track.

also think about what else you can use to gain thier attention. magic tricks, ask them if they think women or men lie more, etc etc
 

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This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by [o_0]
this technique is lame
Im not saying its an actual technique just something I thought of.

But I'm not surpised that you would knock that since it's not you saying that its the god of all pick ups.
you ****ing n00b.

Originally posted by sexualchocolate
i can see it getting her attention and drawn into a conversation.
Yes, whole point.

Originally posted by SynapsyS
This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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Read what?

It's not all like that. Basically its any topic that you think that would draw them in.

Dont matter what it is.

You have to think more than in just one area.
 

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Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
 

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yeah but then she says "why do you say that", then you're screwed unless you come up with a good response to that, that's valid and doesnt make you look dumb lol ;)

i find the only good time for magic tricks is killing time, and not making a big deal out of them. if they're good (i know a good one with a coin, and another good one with a coin and a sugar pack like at a resturaunt), then they'll be enough alone without u having to say "LOOK AT THIS SWEET AZZ MAGIC TRICK" and making it look geeky lol
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
Yea I got styles book and read about it.


But that mercy thing...thats bull, man. :eek:
 
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