"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The overheard technique

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Do you guys think this is good?

You say something loud while talking to friend to get a girl you're walking by or standing next too in a party.

I myself havent tested it much but maybe some of you already did something like this.

Recently me and my wing saw this girl drive really fast and we were talking about how men are better drivers then women.

One girl walks by me and I make sure I said really loud, "thats why men are better at driving."

She just kept walking.

Any advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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this technique is lame
 

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yeah, it needs work, but i think your on the right track.

also think about what else you can use to gain thier attention. magic tricks, ask them if they think women or men lie more, etc etc
 

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This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by [o_0]
this technique is lame
Im not saying its an actual technique just something I thought of.

But I'm not surpised that you would knock that since it's not you saying that its the god of all pick ups.
you ****ing n00b.

Originally posted by sexualchocolate
i can see it getting her attention and drawn into a conversation.
Yes, whole point.

Originally posted by SynapsyS
This technique reeks of "I can't ACTUALLY approach girls, so i have to insult them to get a reaction."

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Read what?

It's not all like that. Basically its any topic that you think that would draw them in.

Dont matter what it is.

You have to think more than in just one area.
 

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Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
 

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yeah but then she says "why do you say that", then you're screwed unless you come up with a good response to that, that's valid and doesnt make you look dumb lol ;)

i find the only good time for magic tricks is killing time, and not making a big deal out of them. if they're good (i know a good one with a coin, and another good one with a coin and a sugar pack like at a resturaunt), then they'll be enough alone without u having to say "LOOK AT THIS SWEET AZZ MAGIC TRICK" and making it look geeky lol
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
Someone suggested magic tricks:down:
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by FRëSHURE
His names Mystery, and is arguably the best PUA around. Makes alot of money from it aswell.
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I used to use a similar technique to this when I first started out as a PUA.

Say you're crossing the road, and there is a HB coming from the other direction and you'll unavoidably walk past each other in a close proximity, cough into your hand and say "I'm a virgin".

She'll feel sorry for you, and give you a mercy f*ck.
Yea I got styles book and read about it.


But that mercy thing...thats bull, man. :eek:
 
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