"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the outlook of a DJ's bed

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i was wonderin bout a good color that looks masculine for a dj's bed's cover(everything that covers the bed i mean..thats wut covers u when ure asleep)

well that sounds stupid, i kno that, but mum wants to buy me new bed covers and im not finding the right color, im thinking of dark green. wut do u guys think?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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it's what you like. unless I have company, I rarely actually sleep in my bed.. I perfer the couch for some reason.. I have silk lavander sheets, it matches the outlay of my room
 

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get a bedspread with smurfs on it. All the chicks will dig you.
 

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Obsidian said:
get a bedspread with smurfs on it. All the chicks will dig you.
What are you talking about? It's Spiderman all the way! :rockon:
 

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dude, you can't go wrong withj the smurfs... I mean.. their smurfs

What woman in their right mind is going to say something negative towards cute little blue people?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker said:
...What woman in their right mind is going to say something negative towards cute little blue people?
Smurfette. She was the only female in the entire village. She had to service 99 of those blue meanies. Well, 97 1/2; Brainy Smurf was asexual and Papa Smurf could only get it up half the time. :p
 

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backbreaker said:
it's what you like. unless I have company, I rarely actually sleep in my bed.. I perfer the couch for some reason.. I have silk lavander sheets, it matches the outlay of my room
Silk huh... Now thats pimpin.
 

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nothing says I'm going to fvck your brains out like lavander silk bedsheets, candles and the "backbreaker sex mix tape special".... (i promise I could sell this damn cd..i've been using it for 6 years).

If I don't have company, I might sleep in there 2 times a month. Hell i've had company and still not go to sleep in my bed.. it literarly only has one use.

I have a nice patio now where I live, I sleep outside alot, something you couldn't dream of doing in arkansas
 

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backbreaker said:
nothing says I'm going to fvck your brains out like lavander silk bedsheets, candles and the "backbreaker sex mix tape special".
LoL I like the way you think. Candles a must too. Oh man, its soo easy to seduce these girls into these "romantic" scenes, True Playboy status. Nice.
 

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i have this thing, i've had it all my life... I hate light. wanna piss me off? Cut a light on in my house. It's to damn bright. as we speak I am working, in the pitch dark and the only light is my pc screen. I put my pc in a room with no windows so in the day time there won't be any light beeming in.

I mean wheN i go outside I'm fine, and it's not really natural light, it's damn lightbulbs I hate. That's the REAL reason for the candles, becuase it provides a way to see without all the damn power of a lightbulb.. but owmen don't know that, they just think i'm "romantic"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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