"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The only way to get girls is...
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
In response to your topic, well, I'm pretty sure I know that you know that it's not true. If something has happened to make you discouraged and take a binary outlook on things (can't get a girl without a girl vs. getting girls is easy when I have a girl, no middle ground), chin up, it'll pass. Be rational.
Preselection certainly helps, but you don't by any means NEED to be knee deep in women to have success. You demonstrate through your actions that you are a man capable of attracting women. How to be that man is a whole 'nother story - what this forum revolves around in fact (Read the DJ Bible).
Tictac
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Since no one starts out with a girl, your idea requires that you will never get one.
You may want to rethink your statement.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
aforabi
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So, build up your life ... build hobbies and interests you are passionate about or enjoy doing ... and try inviting chicks into those place to "test" if she likes your lifestyle or not? Of course, you need to make your lifestyle a little bit interesting (this forum will help), or have something interesting going for you. If she likes your style, she is an interested woman in my book. If she does not, i drop them like a bad habit
Peace!
Focus on YOU, not them ... if they like your style, they will stick otherwise go NEXT them ... there are plenty!