"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The only way to get girls is...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
In response to your topic, well, I'm pretty sure I know that you know that it's not true. If something has happened to make you discouraged and take a binary outlook on things (can't get a girl without a girl vs. getting girls is easy when I have a girl, no middle ground), chin up, it'll pass. Be rational.
Preselection certainly helps, but you don't by any means NEED to be knee deep in women to have success. You demonstrate through your actions that you are a man capable of attracting women. How to be that man is a whole 'nother story - what this forum revolves around in fact (Read the DJ Bible).
Tictac
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Since no one starts out with a girl, your idea requires that you will never get one.
You may want to rethink your statement.
amazingswayze
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
aforabi
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So, build up your life ... build hobbies and interests you are passionate about or enjoy doing ... and try inviting chicks into those place to "test" if she likes your lifestyle or not? Of course, you need to make your lifestyle a little bit interesting (this forum will help), or have something interesting going for you. If she likes your style, she is an interested woman in my book. If she does not, i drop them like a bad habit
Peace!
Focus on YOU, not them ... if they like your style, they will stick otherwise go NEXT them ... there are plenty!