"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only thing a woman is good for

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The only thing a woman is good for is to help me go to heaven. I want a woman to pray with and study the Bible with. If a woman is not willing to be a spiritual partner, I get rid of her. Help me go to heaven, don't lead me to hell.

I don't want a woman to fornicate with, nor do I want a woman to buy presents for, lunch, dinner, or run errands for her. If she can not help me go to heaven, she is worthless to me.

I need a woman with wisdom, moral strength, and that obeys Christ. She's looking for a true soldier of Christ. She knows how to keep her clothes on. That's the only kind that's good enough for me..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The only thing a woman is good for is to help me go to heaven. I want a woman to pray with and study the Bible with. If a woman is not willing to be a spiritual partner, I get rid of her. Help me go to heaven, don't lead me to hell.

I don't want a woman to fornicate with, nor do I want a woman to buy presents for, lunch, dinner, or run errands for her. If she can not help me go to heaven, she is worthless to me.

I need a woman with wisdom, moral strength, and that obeys Christ. She's looking for a true soldier of Christ. She knows how to keep her clothes on. That's the only kind that's good enough for me..
I would pray that you guys do conjugate the situation as you move forward and pray on it. None of us are perfect. There are sins you'll make without even trying. ( thoughts )
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The only thing a woman is good for is to help me go to heaven. I want a woman to pray with and study the Bible with. If a woman is not willing to be a spiritual partner, I get rid of her. Help me go to heaven, don't lead me to hell.

I don't want a woman to fornicate with, nor do I want a woman to buy presents for, lunch, dinner, or run errands for her. If she can not help me go to heaven, she is worthless to me.

I need a woman with wisdom, moral strength, and that obeys Christ. She's looking for a true soldier of Christ. She knows how to keep her clothes on. That's the only kind that's good enough for me..
God said it is better for man to be alone than to marry, but if he is weak and can not go without sex, to find a woman.

So, no, sex isn't going to make you stronger my dude or help you go to heaven.
 

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Fvcking and fvcking a mans life up. Just joking. A reasonable amount of sex will feed a part of a mans ego that non sex cant fill. For example my muscles hang better when im well sexed. My charisma higher too. Women can see it and so can people.
 

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If you need anyone's help other than Jesus to go to heaven you're doing it wrong.

Spiritual partner, I can understand, someone to "help" you get to heaven... bro no. That is down to you and you alone.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The only thing a woman is good for is to help me go to heaven. I want a woman to pray with and study the Bible with. If a woman is not willing to be a spiritual partner, I get rid of her. Help me go to heaven, don't lead me to hell.

I don't want a woman to fornicate with, nor do I want a woman to buy presents for, lunch, dinner, or run errands for her. If she can not help me go to heaven, she is worthless to me.

I need a woman with wisdom, moral strength, and that obeys Christ. She's looking for a true soldier of Christ. She knows how to keep her clothes on. That's the only kind that's good enough for me..
This has got to be the best troll post ever....if it was a troll posting.

But in the event that u r being serious, you might need to grow up a little bit by moving out of mommy's house and attend some de-brainwashing sessions with a professional.
 

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The only thing a woman is good for is to help me go to heaven. I want a woman to pray with and study the Bible with. If a woman is not willing to be a spiritual partner, I get rid of her. Help me go to heaven, don't lead me to hell.

I don't want a woman to fornicate with, nor do I want a woman to buy presents for, lunch, dinner, or run errands for her. If she can not help me go to heaven, she is worthless to me.

I need a woman with wisdom, moral strength, and that obeys Christ. She's looking for a true soldier of Christ. She knows how to keep her clothes on. That's the only kind that's good enough for me..
Genesis 1:28, KJV: "And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth."

We are commanded to mate, it is the divine plan. And to do it often. Anything else is disobedience.
 

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1 Corinthians
7 For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.

8 But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; 9 but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.


32 But I want you to be without [b]care. He who is unmarried [c]cares for the things of the Lord—how he may please the Lord. 33 But he who is married cares about the things of the world—how he may please his wife. 34 There is a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 And this I say for your own profit, not that I may put a leash on you, but for what is proper, and that you may serve the Lord without distraction.

36 But if any man thinks he is behaving improperly toward his [d]virgin, if she is past the flower of youth, and thus it must be, let him do what he wishes. He does not sin; let them marry. 37 Nevertheless he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but has power over his own will, and has so determined in his heart that he will keep his [e]virgin, does well. 38 So then he who gives [f]her in marriage does well, but he who does not give her in marriage does better.

39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she remains as she is, according to my judgment—and I think I also have the Spirit of God.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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