"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The ones you want never want you?

alwayslead8821

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I have always had the problem like many people that ones that you really want always seem to get scared away. I have been trying to figure out why. I have always had girls that I don't want obsessed with me and I had no clue why.

This is the article that made me realize everything. I now don't have to read allllll those articles that tell you how to act when meeting women cause I already know! You just have act like you do with the other girls that chased you around.

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm

I have read almost every single tip on so suave and this is my number 1..
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Matt281

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It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
 

tosh

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combination of 3 factors (first 2 of which you guys already mentioned):

1) you like women who are hot. They have more options therefore harder to get.

2) you act more attractively around women you don't fancy.

3) if a woman doesn't want you, you find her MORE attractive. so it's a bit of a reverse affect. YOu want the ones that don't want you, not the other way around.
 

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Matt281 said:
It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
 

Wiesman44

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nismo-4 said:
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
the type of women that want you b/c of fame, fortune, or status are the women you want to stay away from !
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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