“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The ones you want never want you?

alwayslead8821

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I have always had the problem like many people that ones that you really want always seem to get scared away. I have been trying to figure out why. I have always had girls that I don't want obsessed with me and I had no clue why.

This is the article that made me realize everything. I now don't have to read allllll those articles that tell you how to act when meeting women cause I already know! You just have act like you do with the other girls that chased you around.

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm

I have read almost every single tip on so suave and this is my number 1..
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
 

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combination of 3 factors (first 2 of which you guys already mentioned):

1) you like women who are hot. They have more options therefore harder to get.

2) you act more attractively around women you don't fancy.

3) if a woman doesn't want you, you find her MORE attractive. so it's a bit of a reverse affect. YOu want the ones that don't want you, not the other way around.
 

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Matt281 said:
It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
 

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nismo-4 said:
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
the type of women that want you b/c of fame, fortune, or status are the women you want to stay away from !
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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