"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The ones you want never want you?

alwayslead8821

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I have always had the problem like many people that ones that you really want always seem to get scared away. I have been trying to figure out why. I have always had girls that I don't want obsessed with me and I had no clue why.

This is the article that made me realize everything. I now don't have to read allllll those articles that tell you how to act when meeting women cause I already know! You just have act like you do with the other girls that chased you around.

http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip172.htm

I have read almost every single tip on so suave and this is my number 1..
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Matt281

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It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
 

tosh

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combination of 3 factors (first 2 of which you guys already mentioned):

1) you like women who are hot. They have more options therefore harder to get.

2) you act more attractively around women you don't fancy.

3) if a woman doesn't want you, you find her MORE attractive. so it's a bit of a reverse affect. YOu want the ones that don't want you, not the other way around.
 

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Matt281 said:
It's also the fact that really desirable girls have 10000x as many options as other girls. There's a lot of merit to the idea of "treating them just like everyone else", but you have to get them interested in the first place.
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
 

Wiesman44

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nismo-4 said:
Thanks for making the fine print clear from that tip.

The really desirable girls are more likely to get with you if you got fame, fortune, status,or looks.
the type of women that want you b/c of fame, fortune, or status are the women you want to stay away from !
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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