"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The One

Epicurus

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
The Next one is always better
 

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
Believe it or not, some people are actually happily married with a loving family. They prefer that rather than chasing stupid little bitches all their life!!
 
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Believe it or not, some people are actually happily married with a loving family. They prefer that rather than chasing stupid little bitches all their life!!
I like "the idea" of marriage and children (minus the stupid divorce laws), but I'm not sure it would work for me in practice.
 
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