"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The One

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
The Next one is always better
 

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What's the obsession. I see a lot of guys writing endless threads and long paragraphs about the one. How great she was. How good her personality was. How smart, funny, beautiful she is. And they just obsess over this. Now I obviously know this comes from a place of scarcity as any guy with options knows THE one universal truth. In the past 4 months since my ex I've gone on 30+ dates, and I can assure you THE ONLY one you should be worried about is THE NEXT ONE. When you experience so many women in such a short amount of time you begin to realize your special little princess isn't as special as you'd like to believe
Believe it or not, some people are actually happily married with a loving family. They prefer that rather than chasing stupid little bitches all their life!!
 
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Believe it or not, some people are actually happily married with a loving family. They prefer that rather than chasing stupid little bitches all their life!!
I like "the idea" of marriage and children (minus the stupid divorce laws), but I'm not sure it would work for me in practice.
 
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