"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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the one that i missed

5uave

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ok...heres the situation...this girl and I hit it off so well in the begining, and i was making moves and stuff but she never wanted anything yet because she was still waiting on her ex. they just broke up. So anywayz, we were hitting it off great with kino and stuff but we never held hands or kissed or whatever. so we hung out so much that I knew that I had to back away because I didnt want to be her friend. So eventually i did, I stopped calling her and hanging out with her, but now that I know that shes free and single, how do i let her know that i'm still interested in her and want to go out with her?

Go ahead..bash away..this sounds stupid just typing it myself.
I'm already f***ing other girls and they all want to be with me but i don't want a relationship with them. we all want what we can't have, so I want to be with the one i missed. so how? any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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speedo_meme

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You're fukking other girls? Riiiight....
 

5uave

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Yes..but I'm actually looking for a girlfriend now i guess, and I can't see myself with the girls I'm dating now. They all have things that bother me. ones psycho (stalks me) and theres another one that I can't trust (lies to much). I want to be with the one that I always wanted but was held back because she was waiting on her Ex. Now that she realized that he was a loser and giving up on him, I want to jump in again but can't seem to get the right mindset to do it.
 

Good_ol_boy

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You got a phone?

If so, just call her.
 
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