"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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the one that i missed

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5uave

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ok...heres the situation...this girl and I hit it off so well in the begining, and i was making moves and stuff but she never wanted anything yet because she was still waiting on her ex. they just broke up. So anywayz, we were hitting it off great with kino and stuff but we never held hands or kissed or whatever. so we hung out so much that I knew that I had to back away because I didnt want to be her friend. So eventually i did, I stopped calling her and hanging out with her, but now that I know that shes free and single, how do i let her know that i'm still interested in her and want to go out with her?

Go ahead..bash away..this sounds stupid just typing it myself.
I'm already f***ing other girls and they all want to be with me but i don't want a relationship with them. we all want what we can't have, so I want to be with the one i missed. so how? any advice?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You're fukking other girls? Riiiight....
 
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5uave

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Yes..but I'm actually looking for a girlfriend now i guess, and I can't see myself with the girls I'm dating now. They all have things that bother me. ones psycho (stalks me) and theres another one that I can't trust (lies to much). I want to be with the one that I always wanted but was held back because she was waiting on her Ex. Now that she realized that he was a loser and giving up on him, I want to jump in again but can't seem to get the right mindset to do it.
 
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You got a phone?

If so, just call her.
 
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