"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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the one that i missed

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5uave

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ok...heres the situation...this girl and I hit it off so well in the begining, and i was making moves and stuff but she never wanted anything yet because she was still waiting on her ex. they just broke up. So anywayz, we were hitting it off great with kino and stuff but we never held hands or kissed or whatever. so we hung out so much that I knew that I had to back away because I didnt want to be her friend. So eventually i did, I stopped calling her and hanging out with her, but now that I know that shes free and single, how do i let her know that i'm still interested in her and want to go out with her?

Go ahead..bash away..this sounds stupid just typing it myself.
I'm already f***ing other girls and they all want to be with me but i don't want a relationship with them. we all want what we can't have, so I want to be with the one i missed. so how? any advice?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speedo_meme

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You're fukking other girls? Riiiight....
 
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5uave

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Yes..but I'm actually looking for a girlfriend now i guess, and I can't see myself with the girls I'm dating now. They all have things that bother me. ones psycho (stalks me) and theres another one that I can't trust (lies to much). I want to be with the one that I always wanted but was held back because she was waiting on her Ex. Now that she realized that he was a loser and giving up on him, I want to jump in again but can't seem to get the right mindset to do it.
 
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You got a phone?

If so, just call her.
 
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