"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The one simple thing that has SKYROCKETED my in-date success rate...

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I have no idea why, but one simple change I have made to what I wear on dates has made a huge difference in my success rate.

A little background---about 2 months ago I ended up getting a gash in my head that required stitches to close. Unfortunately, I got a free shave on the area needing stitches as well. So I ended up having to buzz the rest of my hair so it could grow back the same length all together. I don't like how it looks on me---I look like a total d!ck with my hair buzzed. So I started wearing a hat all the time when I go out(not only on dates, all the time). Backwards.

This one change has completely skyrocketed my in-date success rate. Women are literally all over me on the dates now pretty much from the word go. Every single date I have gone on with a new woman since I have started doing this has led to extremely high interest---handj0bs, bl0wjobs, c0ck rubbing(no first date sex yet--still working on logistics) and most texting me right after the date or the next day about how they really had fun and want to see me again. Just got finished with a date tonight where she basically grabbed me about 30 minutes into the date and started making out with me like she couldn't take it anymore, lol...got the text right after saying she wants to see me again soon. She told me I look like "trouble" and a "bad boy".

I don't know whether it portrays an "I don't give a fvck" attitude, makes me look like a "bad boy", or makes me look more masculine. I have an oval face so wearing the hat backwards kind of cuts off my face and makes it more square-like and gives me a better jawline, in my opinion...but I would have never guessed it could have the effect it has on their interest level...

So anyone who is getting so-so results on dates, I would say to try this and see what happens. Especially if you have a round or oval face like I have.

Anyone that has an opinion on what might be happening and why this has increased my success so much please let me know your thoughts---I am kind of dumbfounded. I should have been doing this a lot sooner, buzz cut or not...
 
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
 

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Are the females from lower class backgrounds?
Why do you ask that?

I have been wanting to pierce my ears and stick diamonds in them, wonder if the hat would also bring some style.
 
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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
I don't mind the way I look in the backwards hat, but I never thought the effect would be so dramatic.

I don't like the way I look without the hat with my hair buzzed short...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are the females from lower class backgrounds?
No. The women I went out with last night has a really good job and is about to graduate from nursing school on top of that...I'll be posting a FR later when I get more time
 

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What a bizarre tale.

I think it's funny because YOU didn't like the way you looked in the hat, but somehow the girls responded. Kind of puts the lie to the idea that you have to love the way you look before thers can appreciate it. Those two things are not always related, IMO.
Bingo
 

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Again---I don't like the way I look WITHOUT the hat with my hair buzzed---which is why I started wearing the hat in the first place on the dates...but since I keep getting such great responses from it, I'm going to keep doing it even when my hair grows back...
 

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What kind of hat?

I always find hats on men to be kind of pretentious (except baseball caps), but you may be pulling it off well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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